Category: “Psychology”. Authority and power – what is the difference as a manifestation

Category “Psychology” with Anastasia Danilova. #iwu_psychology

If you look from the bottom, any leadership looks like suppression. A person goes from leader to leader and always remains in the position of “I’m not in charge here, nothing depends on me”. It is necessary to disconnect a little from any opinion and ask: what do I want? And go out, or rather, be ready to go out into the open field, where there is no one but the wind, the field and the sun, be ready to be alone in your endeavor. This is the beginning of your journey. While the teachers are leading, this is the beginning, understanding, “kindergarten”. Real school can only begin when you go alone. But. You can go out in war, resistance, rebellion, then no one will be around. And you can get out without conflict, then you are a value, and the other is a value, and you are two equal values.

People are given two different paths: 1) loneliness and planting your faith, or 2) partnership, collaboration, and love as glue and common sense. The third way is to follow others ( discussed above).

It’s important to go and look around. There are a lot of singles and everyone gives their own, and no one hears. There are no real leaders. Those who are ready to hear others without war, understand their intentions, and do not rush to evaluate or repent.

There are always important things in a true leadership position:

Accept yourself with your pros and cons, be honest in your desires and thoughts;
Accept the other with their current plans and changes in the future (you do not care what the person chooses in the course of their path, you respect the choice, and allow yourself to change steps too);
To understand that you share success and failure with those who are close to you without regret, without doubt, and go further, you have a constant value, this is the way;
Feel that you are striving for development for yourself and for those around you;
To know that you are looking for God as an answer to your questions and are ready to accept any criticism in your address, because this is your growth;
Understand that you speak for yourself no matter what happens and always be sincere;
Speaking, to hear how your speech responds to others, how they react to it and your words change their consciousness and path;
Be able to be silent, because you want to hear the opinions of others, it is important for you to know what gives rise to their thoughts and feelings, you eagerly seek understanding of their path, the course of life, considering any event near you as a sign and miracle of God’s appearance in your life, because you know that he reveals himself to us through our loved ones;
Confirm that everything that happens to you, you appreciate, in everything you see the result of your efforts and the efforts of those who are close to you. And at some point, those around you become your extension. You are them, they are you.
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